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Fall in Love, Stay in Love 
Willard F. Harley, Jr.

Our Price: $18.99
Format: Hardcover, 256pp.
ISBN: 0800717937
Publisher: Revell, Fleming H. Company\
Pub. Date: September  2001

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More than a million husbands and wives have improved their marriages through books by Dr. Willard Harley. And now, for the first time, he invites you to "step into his office" and see how the whole plan works.

Fall in Love, Stay in Love weaves together the insights and techniques Dr. Harley has collected over the years into one comprehensive plan for building and sustaining the feeling of love. In seventeen sessions it equips you with the tools you need for a happy, successful marriage.

Discover how to fall in love by meeting each other's needs. Then learn how to stay in love by avoiding habits that chip away at your love for each other. And don't forget to master the art of negotiating in marriage along the way. With these vital steps in place, you and your spouse will enjoy a romantic, passionate, lifelong love for each other.

Table of Contents
Part 1 Setting the Stage
1 How I Learned to Save Marriages 9
2 The Love Bank 17
3 Instincts and Habits 27
Part 2 How to Make Love Bank Deposits
4 Learning to Care for Each Other 37
5 His Most Important Emotional Needs 45
6 Her Most Important Emotional Needs 55
7 Identifying and Meeting Important Emotional Needs 67
8 The Policy of Undivided Attention 79
Part 3 How to Avoid Love Bank Withdrawals
9 Learning to Protect Each Other 93
10 Love Busters 99
11 Love Busters: Part 2 111
12 The Policy of Radical Honesty 119
13 Identifying and Overcoming Love Busters 131
Part 4 How to Negotiate in Marriage
14 The Giver and the Taker 141
15 The Three States of Mind in Marriage 151
16 The Policy of Joint Agreement 163
17 Four Guidelines for Successful Negotiation 175
18 How to Resolve Everyday Problems 185
Conclusion 199
Appendixes
A Summary of My Basic Concepts to Help You Fall in Love and Stay in Love 201
B Emotional Needs Questionnaire 211
C Agreement to Meet the Most Important Emotional Needs 223
D Time for Undivided Attention Worksheet 224
E Time for Undivided Attention Graph 225
F Personal History Questionnaire 226
G Love Busters Questionnaire 243
H Agreement to Overcome Love Busters 250

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